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Dear Me
Dear Me,
Nobody can fully understand me, as much as me… Nobody!
Oh, I know others may make efforts to understand me, yet that’s all they are, “outside efforts”. Moreover, believe it or not, these outside efforts from others are what I should love, not dismiss or discount. That’s because no one has walked my life in my shoes, nor feels things in the manners I do and never will. Therefore, measure only the actionable efforts of others who desire to understand me. Those are lovable people.
It is understandable disagreements will occur, ask questions of yourself and them:
- “Do I understand “their” perception of me and the situation?” [empathy]
- “Do I say something or stay silent?” [doing right versus guilt causing]
- “Have I openly explained how I feel or have I left it implied?” [disclosing versus assumptive]
- “Do I stay or walk away?” [doing right versus selfish]
I do this because of how I perceive other’s understanding of me and my needs using empathy and make personal efforts to stay away from selfishly using my views of their efforts? My time and effort is valuable, just as theirs is…
I believe this is what counts towards love and understanding… getting passed my own self and keep trying with good intentions and loyal efforts.
Sincerely,
You
Dear Me…
Hi, it’s me again… Just a quick note to let you know you’re doing great. Don’t worry about the mistakes the other day, they’re in the past. And in case no one has told you today or even recently…
You are awesome!
You are making progress!
You are holding your own!
You are you. Keep going!
Sincerely… Your inner Coach, You
Dear Me,
Don’t seek honesty in others, seek within yourself. Like all the scars you’ve been neglecting over a lifetime. Face them without judgement.
Don’t seek trust in others either, seek within yourself. Go deeper, like knowing what and how to handle those scars now that they’re being reopened.
Lastly, don’t seek love in others, seek within your soul which you just learned about and how to love me all over again.
Let the world adjust to your new self. It will be alright in the end. Love me… Trust me…
Lovingly, You
PS… Don’t seek respect in others, this is a recipe for disappointment, only when you’re truly centered with your inner soul, you will see who is also self-respecting and those who aren’t.
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3. Are disrespectful to me or my followers.
I have absolutely NO interest or tolerance for this sort of impudent, childish behavior.
Go Away and stay away!
Dear Me…
Stop competing with others…
and the stigma others wrongfully put on you…
When you compete with or believe the stigmas of others, you end up lying to yourself and ultimately will be lying to others… STOP IT!
Whether in regards to age, body stature, build or any other aspect: Don’t say you’re 42 when you’re actually 54. Yeah, you’ve heard people give you one age when in fact they’re older. That’s on them… No, not all do this. Don’t say you’re 5′-10″ when you’re 5′-2″ and never say you’re athletic or even average build when you’re a heavier than average and you know it. So you’ve got a tummy, SO WHAT! Go lose it! You want to be the best you can for your lover, GREAT. You’re not fat… yet. Go exercise, swim… Get off your lazy ass and lose it. People gripe and complain all the time and these complaints are nothing but lazy ass EXCUSES. You want and like the complements to be reflective of the real you, if this is indeed the case… BE YOUR ABSOLUTE BEST! And don’t stop or give up till you get there.
Just be YOU and stop catering to the political correct world of BS. You do no one any benefit especially yourself.
Sincerely,
Your inner coach
Go ahead…
Ask me some questions…
Dear Me…
Here’s a paradox of gender…
1. Women DON’T want to be with a guy who is needy for her. It totally turns her off. [If you’re more or less begging her to be and spend time with you… STOP IT! When she’s into you, you will know!]
2. Women want to feel desired. A compunction of romance and playful pursuit. [Entice her with your witty charm. Pay attention to her.]
The paradox of these two is that she “needs to feel” desired by you, the man, yet she cannot “feel like you need” her or anything from her. She needs to feel wanted by you as the man, not
needed. Note the difference between the two. It’s astronomically HUGE in her mind.
This feeling comes from you, the man… from your confidence, actions, composure, words, et cetera. She wants you to succeed, so step up and be the man for her. Make your time with her, fun and enjoyable and “about her”, not about you.
Go get her… Your Wingman
Dear Me…
You know what’s good to find…
A kindred spirit and soul who gets most all of your odd, quirky intricacies.
A soul willing to slow down, listen and understand your flaws.
A soul unafraid of learning more of your depth.
A soul wanting to be in your company with your quirkiness.
A soul seeing your real self beyond what you show the world.
A soul calling your cop outs and excuses what they are…
A soul getting you to emerge and come out of your shell.
A soul wanting the best for you, no matter how crazy it might be.
A soul saying appropriately “I’m sorry” with humble sincerity and mean it.
A soul instructing you what to do, but only because, you’ll be better off doing so.
A soul unafraid of listening to your gibberish. Why? Because between the lines, there’s depth to your crazy logic.
A soul wanting to cuddle, love and take care of you regularly beyond worldly worries.
And above all, will unconditionally be loyal and true to you.
Always…Your inner self
Dear Me,
Your daily purpose is to inspire and encourage people around you. Showing passionate vigor from the depths of your heart and soul, uniting people with loving kindness.
Compassionately, You
Dear Me…
Look… You’ve gotten lazy, you’re now over weight. You know it because your doctor tells you and if he doesn’t he’s lying to you. Stop sugarcoating the truth because of political correctness saying you look good or you’ve only got a little tummy. That’s BS and stop letting others do the same. Face it, you’ve got some weight to lose. Yeah, I know you justify that burger, pizza, ice cream, etc… to yourself. I’m telling you to STOP IT!
This extra weight is killing you slowly and methodically!
Your heart feels it and so does the rest of your body. Start walking, swimming, working out… DO something and stop making all those lame excuses for your lazy ass.
Yeah, I’m telling you it won’t be easy. NOTHING worthwhile in life ever is. It’s gonna be damn hard at times too. This ain’t got crap to do about other’s perspective. They don’t have a vested interest in you. It’s totally about YOU and the health of me, your inner being and soul. Don’t you dare get lazy or give up. Keep pushing because I’ve got great plans for you “in your future” and I want you to be the best you can be.
Cordially, Your inner coach.